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for stepping out
For lots of crossdressers is dressing up and stay at our house in the
safety in our home enough and all that you want, but for some of us
there will come a moment that you want to step out into the public.
When you want to go into the public, with the reason to see how others
take you for a woman, we call this 'passing'. For some crossdressers
is this the ultimate goal.
The reason for stepping out is most of the times different for every
crossdresser. But whatever reason you have, I think that you must have
So in my opinion you have to prepare the trip carefully. You must
always be able to keep the situation comfortable.
Once you have a negative experience, you don't get enjoyment from
this. With positive experiences you can handle also failures better.
Why this checklist
When you finally decide that the woman inside must enter the outside
world, most of us girls just can't dress up and step out of the
I put this checklist on the web because once you are outside you might
have forgotten something to take with you on your trip. When this
happens you don't have the maximum enjoyment of your trip.
This list you can use as an checklist for stepping out. For all of you who
haven't been out yet and plan to do so, the following might be of interest
Before you can go out enfemme, you better fill up your car with
petrol. You don't like to run out of gas. You better also check your oil
and coolant before you dress.
- house and carkeys
- coins for parking, etc.
- id/drivers licence
- vehicle registration
- womans bag with: mirror, comb, lipp stick, mascara, foundation, extra pantyhose, safety pin, etc.
What to wear?
After you decide to step outside, you have to consider about what to
wear, where to go, how to get back what to do when you do when your
car break down and last but not least: how will you react in case of
For many of us there are only limited opportunities to dress up at
home and leave the house enfemme. The most easy way in this situation
is dressing up as far a possible and wear over your female outfit your
own clothes. You can use a training suit for this.
Before dressing up, put as many things in the car as you want to use:
such as coat, and the sportsbag (see later). Then you can dress up at
When you dress up, put on the make-up (liquid concealer, foundation)
and if you don't expect to run into other people you can also put on
the eye shadow, mascara, blush, but don't put your lipstick on yet.
When you go out in the daytime, just put up your sunglasses to cover
the eyes. If your neighbours see anything it would only be you in
a training suit and at a distance they wouldn't make out the makeup!
To complete your transformation you put the following articles in your
Wig (+comb), nails, ear-clips, watch, armband, rings, shoes (heels not
For use while dressed
For use while dressed -- put in an other bag:
handbag (and put in eye-shadow, mascara, blush, money, also coins for
parking), jacket/coat, video camcorder (with extra battery), extra pair
Don't drive above the speed limit, and change your sitting position
behind the wheel: women, since usualy sit different:-)
Don't forget to have your drivers license and vehicle registration
handy in case you get stopped by the police.
If this happens in our country nothing is wrong, as long as you can identify
yourself. Don't panic!.
If you want to make an excuse for your outfit (but you don't have to
because you don't do something which is forbidden), you can say that
you are visiting a party or a club.
At a parking lot, (away from where you live, since someone could
recognise your car), you can change into your enfemme person, by
taking of your training suit, put on your wig, the earrings, lipstick,
by using your inside mirror of your car.
You are now driving enfemme!
Before getting out of the car:
Check your wig, look around to see if anyone is nearby, then get out
of the car, straighten your skirt properly and go! Try to feel
Don't forget to pay the parkingfee!!!
If you don't travel by car
At every T&T contact group in the Netherlands, there is a changing room. So you can travel as a man, enter
the T&T meeting room, ask for the changingroom and change at the location. At the end of the meeting
(usualy around midnight), you can change back to your normal clothes. For this you also need the things as mentioned
It can happen that you have to change into your normal clothing. In
this case you have to get rid of the make-up, mascara, put on your
training suit and shoes. For this you'll need:
Training shoes, tissues, makeup removal pads already with cream on
them, bottle of water for cleaning your face, nailpoish remover.